If you’ve felt like the majority of sex-toys articles you’ve come across in the past have catered to heterosexual pairings, and you’re only stare think “That does not concern me or my needs,” then today is your lucky day.Truth be told, most sex toys can be used for any and all bodies in any and all couples or groupings. All you need is an open mind, a little creativity, and possibly some lube. Lesbians, and pretty LGBT, here are some basics in gettin’ it on with a little help from your vibrators friends.
Not all lesbians use strap-ons. Strap-ons can be super interesting and also come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Here are the basics of what you can find in the land of strap-ons or vibrating panties:
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Choosing dildos require a few decisions as well. The most obvious, perhaps, is size. You can go small, large, straight, curved.The options in Dildo-land are virtually endless.
Appearance is also a factor. Some dildo-users are after authenticity: they want their parts to look like the real deal, right down to the balls.But most of lesbian couples sex and lesbian sex doesn’t. They would rather have the fun without making penis toys, and so may choose dildos that look as far from the real thing as possible.
Lastly, if you and your lesbian couples are both penetration fans, check this out: you can use double-sided dildos like the Feeldoe in many of the harnesses so that the wearer and the receiver are both getting what they seek.
Some things you should know about relationships between queer women:
There isn’t always lesbian strap-on.
There isn’t always sex toys.
There isn’t always a butch.
There isn’t always just one butch.
Occasionally, use penis toys.
Occasionally, use penis toys and a lesbian strap-on.
Sex is complicated and individual. I find that it’s best to avoid assumptions.It has been my experience that in most lesbian couples,lesbian strap-on is rarely used for sex.
Do you need a minute to process that? Sex with or without a penis?!? Yes, it happens. And it’s pleasurable beyond belief.
Now, that being said of sex toys of all shapes and sizes are used by all different kinds of people in bed — including lesbians strap-ons or vibrating panties. There are really no rules or patterns as to who likes to use what. To each her own. Half the fun in life is discovering what your pleasure is, and everyone is different.
Ever dreamed of walking around in vibrating panties every day? Me neither. But hey, some ladies at Buzz Feed were down to try it, so 5 women conducted their day-to-day lives in vibrating panties for a week. And they lived to tell the bizarre, entertaining tale.
Vibrating panties are pretty straightforward. There’s a pair of underwear, mini-vibrators that you insert into that underwear, and a remote that controls the vibrators. As long as you don’t jump around, the vibrators will stay in place.
Women walked around in vibrating panties for a week, and things got pretty freaking interesting.The women subjected themselves to three major tests: testing the vibrating panties out at home, wearing them in publican giving someone else full control of the remote. They found the first task generally entertaining.
The vibrating panties brought a newfound sense of drama to typically boring meetings, and grocery shopping became more challenging when vibrations livened up a trip down the dairy aisle.The at-home reception was varied—some women liked the vibrators, while others preferred human sexual interaction. And things got really wild when the women sacrificed power of the remote. Some gave it to partners, and others gave it to friends—but all ended up getting buzzed at random points throughout the day. Which is, you know, something.
I’m not sure that 10/10 would recommend trying this at home. But hey, there’s no reason not to relive this entertaining journey vicariously through these fearless pant pioneers. And if you’re down to give vibrating panties a shot, well, you do you.