Why Some Lesbians couples Like Sex Toys


Why do some lesbians enjoy performing oral sex on strap-ons and other sex toys like dildos?

“A straight male asked me ‘Why don’t lesbians like flashlights?’” Scarcella said: “It seems like an easy answer BUT is it? Because we know many lesbians who will suck on their girlfriend’s lesbian sex toys.”

Popular queer vlogger Arielle Scarcella recently teamed up with fellow YouTuber Amber’s Closet to answer this question, along with lots of other queries submitted by viewers.

Other questions address other nuances of lesbian sex and female sexuality,  including “As a ‘stud’ am I expected to have my own strap-on toys?” and “If you’re female but want a female, should you become butch?”

There are obviously no universal answers to these questions, but check out the video above to hear what Scarcella and Amber have to say about their own experiences.

Lesbian Sex: Most Common Misconceptions About Lesbian Couples Use Sex Toys And Dildos

Unfortunately, lesbians seem to bear the brunt of stereotypes and common misconceptions more than most. With statements such as “All lesbians are vegetarians,” “All lesbians hate men,” and “Lesbians are all feminists, right?” making the rounds, these popular myths all creep into the minds of many. But above all, the most famous fable by far is what lesbians sex get up to in the bedroom. Here are seven of the most common misconceptions about lesbian couples sex.

They Only Use Dildos

Just like straight couples, there are millions of different ways lesbians can have sex, if not more. Although there is a huge variety of specifically designed lesbian sex toys available such as strap-ons and double-sided dildos it is not absolutely necessary to use them. In fact, many lesbians prefer tongues, fingers and even fisting to reach orgasm.

They Use lesbian strap-on Because They Miss Men

Firstly strap-on toys do not represent a penis. In fact, it is the last thing they are thinking about. The sole purpose of using strap-ons or penis toys or rabbit vibrators or any other form of sex toys for pleasure. Secondly, it works! Yes, a penis is designed to fit inside a vagina to make babies and procreate but it also feels extremely good when doing so. A strap-on is just the same, yet it doesn’t really look like a penis. Perfect.

Lesbian Bed Death

Lesbian bed death is a term used to describe the point in a relationship where things may have slowed down a bit with regards to sex. Many reasons could be possible for this, some of which include lack of female sexuality, the passion may have dwindled or even having too much sex. However, this can also happen with every other relationship on the planet, only lesbians seem to get a special name for it. Lesbians don’t experience this phenomenon any more than hetero couples.And lots of lesbian couples prefer using female sex toys to get more fun, just like the straight couples.